I like 'growing up'. I like being the age I am. I'm turning 43 this year. And I say that proudly not with regret of the passage of time. I'm certainly not a fan of the "Cult Of Youth".
I started going grey in my late 20's and feeling I was too young to go grey. I coloured my hair. About 2 years ago I made the decision to go grey gracefully. I was having some reactions to the chemicals used in the dyes and was pregnant. After a little internet research decided that dyeing wasn't safe for me to do. Why would I place myself and my babies health at risk just for the sake of my appearance.
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Grey to me signifies wisdom and I hope with age I've gained a little, grey hair may help by at least giving the illusion of such! Grey says to me I'm happy with who I am. I'm comfortable in my own skin I don't need to dye my hair to feel good about myself.
Really look around at women who do dye their hair. Have you noticed how it looks sort of mismatched with their skin and highlights their wrinkles? As you age your skin tone changes if you continue to dye your hair the same shade it will no longer match your skin tone, which has the opposite effect of making you look younger!
If you don't believe me then have a look
here at these photos of women who have gone grey! Can you honestly say any of them look older because they have grey hair?
A nice article
here on selecting hair colour to match your skin tone.
I've had a few comments on my now ever increasing grey locks.
"Oh you're too young to go grey, you should dye your hair!"
" I wouldn't of known you were in your 40's if it wasn't for your grey hair."
" I wish I was brave enough to just go grey."
Since going grey I've been amazed by how rude other women can be. The peer pressure even at my age to conform. Somehow by not choosing to colour my hair I've offended them.
I find it really sad we live in a society that doesn't value age, that wants to hide it. What is so awful about growing old? I love growing old. It means I'm still growing, still learning! I'm looking forward to seeing my grandchildren, watching my own children become parents and the only way to do this is by aging. And really what is the alternative?
Every grey hair God gives me is a blessing, it's a badge of my experience. I've earned everyone of these glorious steaks of colour and I'm displaying them for all to see not hiding them under chemicals.